Masturbator for couples: Experience it together – and the toy that satisfies both

Sex toys in relationships are no longer a taboo. According to a Statista survey, over 30% of German couples use sex toys together – and the trend is rising. But hardly anyone talks about how to use them together, which toy really works for two, and what hygiene means when sharing.

This guide answers precisely these questions. And it introduces the first toy designed for two from the start: a vaginal canal for him, a dildo for her – in a single object made of platinum silicone.

The German Context: Couples and Sex Toys 2026

Germany is one of the most open markets for sex toys in Europe – and the couple segment is growing disproportionately. What has changed: couples no longer buy separately, but together. The toy is no longer one partner's secret, but a shared object.

This fundamentally changes the requirements. A toy for one person must be hygienic. A toy for two must be doubly hygienic – and it must work for both bodies. The EU REACH regulation, which regulates phthalates and dangerous plasticizers in body contact products, applies to one person. When shared, the risk of inferior material doubles.

Platinum silicone is not optional in this context. It is a prerequisite.

Pocket Pussy in a Relationship: 3 Specific Scenarios

Scenario 1: She uses it for him

A Pocket Pussy in the partner's hands – this is one of the most common couple scenarios that is rarely talked about. She controls the pace, pressure, and depth. He experiences the same toy in a completely different context. The toy becomes a shared tool, not a replacement.

For this scenario: a realistic Pocket Pussy model with medium texture intensity. Not too tight for external control, not too loose for sufficient stimulation.

Scenario 2: Shared use with a condom

If both partners use the toy alternately, a condom between uses is the simplest hygiene solution. Important: Latex condoms are fully compatible with platinum silicone. Use water-based lubricant – no silicone-based, not even with a condom.

Between two users without a condom: complete sterilization by boiling (3-5 minutes) or 70% isopropyl alcohol. Only possible with platinum silicone – TPE cannot be fully sterilized.

Scenario 3: The toy as a shared experience

He uses the Pocket Pussy, she watches – or vice versa. The toy becomes part of the shared experience without both having to use it at the same time. The aesthetic of the toy plays a role here: a fantasy model like Horse Pussy or Dog Pussy can intensify the visual experience for both.

The Double Beast: The first true 2-in-1 Couple Toy

All previous scenarios have one thing in common: one partner uses the toy, the other is present. The Double Beast solves this problem fundamentally differently – both use the toy simultaneously, each in their own canal.

The concept: Two fantasy creatures – a fox beast and a dog beast – in a 69-position, cast from one piece of platinum silicone. Mint green, semi-transparent, with pink accents. And two completely separate canals:

• The Fox Beast (top): Vaginal canal for him. Multi-layered lips that close tightly upon penetration – even, circumferential pressure. Not overwhelmingly tight, but noticeably encompassing. Texture over raw tightness.
• The Dog Beast (bottom): Erect penis pointing upwards – designed for her. When sitting on it, the shaft naturally penetrates. The internal structure is tailored to female anatomy and creates targeted pressure on the anterior wall.

Both canals are equipped with uneven internal structures – no smooth surface, but targeted pressure points that feel different with every movement. The toy is compact enough to be held with both hands, but massive enough to stand stably on a surface.

How couples use the Double Beast together

The 69-position of the toy is not just aesthetic – it is functional. Both partners can use the toy simultaneously without hindering each other. He uses the fox canal, she rides the dog penis. The toy stands stably between the two – no holder, no accessories needed.

Alternatively: Each canal can be used completely independently. The Double Beast is not just a couple toy – it is a toy that works for both, individually and together.

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Hygiene during shared use: What really matters

This is the section most guides skip. For shared use, stricter hygiene requirements apply than for single use.

Between two users

• With a condom: Simplest solution for alternating use. Change condom, reapply water-based lubricant. No sterilization step necessary between users.
• Without a condom: Complete sterilization between users. Boiling (3-5 minutes) or 70% isopropyl alcohol. Only possible with platinum silicone.
• Simultaneous use of different canals (as with the Double Beast): No sterilization step necessary between users, as each uses their own canal. After shared use: clean both canals thoroughly.

Why TPE is a hygiene problem with shared use

TPE is porous – bodily fluids penetrate the microstructure. Complete sterilization is not possible. For single use, this is a quality problem. For shared use, it is a hygiene problem. Platinum silicone is the only option for toys used by more than one person.

Lubricant for shared use

Water-based – always. Even with a condom. Silicone-based lubricant permanently damages platinum silicone and is not compatible with latex condoms. Water-based lubricant is the only combination that works with platinum silicone, condoms, and both bodies.

Starting the conversation: How to bring up the topic

Not every partner is immediately open to sex toys in a relationship. That's normal. A few practical approaches:

• Introduce it as a complement, not a replacement. "I want to try something we can use together" is a different approach than "I bought a toy."
• The Double Beast as a conversation starter. A toy explicitly designed for both signals: this is not a replacement for you, this is something for us.
• Set no expectations. The first shared toy doesn't have to be perfect. It opens a conversation – and that is its real value.

SilikonLust: Toys for two – with the same standard as for one

Shared use increases the demands on material, hygiene, and design. SilikonLust developed the Double Beast not as a niche product – but as a consistent answer to a real demand: a toy that works for both bodies, without compromising on material.

100% platinum silicone, hand-cast, fully sterilizable. Two canals, two experiences, one standard. This is the principle on which the entire SilikonLust range is built – and the Double Beast is its most consistent implementation.

Frequently Asked Questions

Can my partner also use the Pocket Pussy for herself?

A vaginal canal is anatomically designed for male use. For her, the dildo canal of the Double Beast is the right option – or a separate dildo from the SilikonLust collection. The Double Beast is the only toy in the range that serves both anatomies simultaneously.

How do we clean the toy after shared use?

Rinse both canals thoroughly, mild soap, rinse completely, air dry. For complete sterilization: boil (3-5 minutes) or 70% isopropyl alcohol.

Do we need a condom?

For simultaneous use of different canals (as with the Double Beast): not necessary. For alternating use of the same canal: condom recommended, or complete sterilization between users.

Which toy is better for couples: Pocket Pussy or Double Beast?

For couples who want to use the toy alternately or together – but separately: Pocket Pussy. For couples who both want a complete experience simultaneously: Double Beast. The Double Beast is the only toy designed for both bodies simultaneously.

Can the Double Beast really be used by both simultaneously?

Yes. The 69-position of the two fantasy creatures is functional: He uses the fox canal (vagina), she rides the dog penis. Both canals are completely separate and can be used simultaneously. The toy stands stably – no holder needed.

Is shared use hygienically safe?

With platinum silicone: yes – with the right protocol. Complete sterilization between different users (boiling or isopropyl alcohol), or a condom for alternating use. With TPE: no – complete sterilization is not possible.

How do I approach the topic with my partner?

As a complement, not a replacement. A toy explicitly designed for both – like the Double Beast – is a more natural conversation starter than a toy intended for only one person. The signal: this is something for us, not just for me.

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